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Interview #2 | Everyday Moms Making a Difference – with Amanda
In this episode of Refining Our Focus in Motherhood, Staci sits down with her friend Amanda to talk about the simple, powerful impact of opening our homes and building Christ-centered community through playgroups and intentional gathering.
Amanda shares how small invitations — park days, living room playdates, and consistent hospitality — became a lifeline for moms in her community. Together, they discuss overcoming the fear of hosting, keeping gatherings simple in seasons of young children, and why perfection is never required for meaningful connection.
If you’ve ever longed for deeper friendships, felt hesitant to invite others in, or wondered how to cultivate community without burnout, this conversation will encourage and equip you.
Rooted in Ecclesiastes 4:9–10, this episode is a reminder that two truly are better than one — and sometimes God uses us to create the very community we’ve been praying for.
You don’t need a perfect home.You don’t need elaborate plans.You just need a willing heart.
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Ecclesiastes 4

Welcome back to Refining Our Focus in Motherhood.
In this episode, I’m continuing our homeschool series by moving from philosophy into practice. Last time, I shared the story of how we came to homeschooling and how the idea of educating through the heart began reshaping the way I see both learning and motherhood.
Today, I want to open the door and show you what this actually looks like in our home right now. 
My thinking has been deeply influenced by Charlotte Mason, who described education as an atmosphere, a discipline, and a life, and by Marlene Peterson and her vision of The Well-Educated Heart. These ideas have gently shifted me from trying to deliver education… to learning how to live it alongside my children.
In this episode, I share:
Why I had to let go of recreating “school at home”
The three anchors shaping our days (good books, habits, and shared life)
What we still do and why structure now serves formation instead of performance
The hardest adjustment of all: changing my own expectations
Encouragement from Galatians 6:9 for the slow, faithful work of motherhood
This is an honest look at what’s working and what we’re still experimenting with as well as how this heart-centered approach is forming me just as much as it’s forming my children.
If this episode encourages you, I would love for you to share it with a friend or leave a review. It helps grow this community of mothers who need the reminder that the small, faithful work matters.

Welcome back to our Life-Giving Home book club. We’re so glad you’re here with us for our February discussion.
Last month, we began this journey together, laying the foundation for what it means to cultivate a home rooted in Christ. In this episode, we continue the conversation as we dive into the February chapter and explore what it truly means to choose love both intentionally and daily within the walls of our homes.
Together, we reflect on the moments, sentences, and stories that challenged and encouraged us. We talk honestly about how this chapter reshapes our understanding of love in motherhood and marriage, not as a feeling, but as a steady, Christ-centered choice. We unpack what “choosing love daily” looks like on the hard days, the busy days, and the days when we feel exhausted and overstimulated.
This conversation is a reminder that building a life-giving home isn’t about perfection as much as presence. It’s about choosing love again and again in the middle of ordinary days, messy kitchens, and tired hearts. The work you are doing matters. The tone you set, the words you speak, and the quiet faithfulness of motherhood reflect God’s heart more than you may realize.

In this episode, we explore what it truly means for a child to know God—not just know about Him. Drawing on Deuteronomy 6:6–7, we discuss how intentional teaching, daily rhythms, and our own spiritual example shape our children’s faith. Through stories, reflections, and insights from leaders like President Jeffrey R. Holland and Marlene Peterson, we share practical ways to create a faith-filled environment in your home. Learn how small, everyday habits, such as praying together, memorizing verses, asking questions, and sharing your own spiritual journey, can help your children feel connected to God and prepared to face the world with confidence.
Deuteronomy 6:6-7
World Congress of Families IX (Bottom of page)
Jeffrey R. Holland - Motions of a Hidden Fire
 

In this episode of Refining Our Focus in Motherhood, Staci launches the new monthly series Everyday Moms Making a Difference with a heartfelt interview featuring Grace — a homeschooling mom of six who is passionate about helping children connect with the gospel in everyday life.
Together, they share practical, faith-filled ways to engage kids in gospel learning without pressure or perfection. You’ll hear simple strategies for teaching children at home and in church, how to keep faith joyful and meaningful, and encouragement for moms who feel overwhelmed or unsure if they’re doing enough.
Rooted in scripture and real-life motherhood, this episode reminds us that small, consistent moments of faith truly make a lasting impact.
Perfect for Christian moms seeking encouragement, gospel-centered parenting tips, and simple ways to teach children about Jesus.
 
Show Notes:
Deuteronomy 6:6-7
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In this opening episode of our homeschooling series, I share our family’s homeschool story including how we began, why we chose to leave traditional schooling, and how our understanding of education has slowly transformed over the past eight years.
What started as “school at home” eventually became something much deeper. God gently led us toward a vision of education rooted in relationship, character, and faith.
In this episode, we talk about releasing the need to be “on track,” redefining success, and embracing the mother’s role as a living example of loving what is good, true, and beautiful.
If you’ve ever felt tired, unsure, or quietly longing for a better way, this episode is an invitation to breathe, reflect, and remember that God gives the growth.
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The Well Educated Heart

This episode marks the beginning of our Refining Our Focus Book Club, a year-long conversation centered on The Life-Giving Home. Once a month, we’ll gather here to talk through the chapter’s monthly focus, share what resonated with us, and reflect on how these ideas can take shape in real homes and real motherhood without pressure, guilt, or the need to do it all.
We’re so excited to start this journey with you and to share a book that has been deeply inspiring and helpful to both of us. The Life-Giving Home invites us to slow down and live with greater intention, offering gentle reflections rather than rigid systems. It’s a month-by-month guide designed to meet you where you are including your family, your rhythms, and your current season.
In this January discussion, we reflect on:
The feelings that lingered with us after reading the chapter
Sentences or ideas that made us pause and reread
Why certain themes feel especially timely right now
Which practices feel truly life-giving rather than life-draining in this season
We’ll also share thoughtful discussion questions you can reflect on personally or talk through with others, and we’ll end with a simple listener challenge. 
 
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The Lifegiving Home: Creating a Place of Belonging and Becoming
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Modern motherhood can feel isolating, even when we’re surrounded by people we love. In this episode, we lean into a powerful truth: mothers were never meant to carry this calling alone.
Continuing the conversation from our last episode, we explore how God often fills our emptiest places through His presence and through other women. From history to scripture to lived experience, we’re reminded that motherhood was designed to be shared, supported, and seen within sisterhood.
We talk honestly about how motherhood can feel incredibly full and incredibly lonely at the same time, and how the pressure to “do it all” has confused strength with self-sufficiency. Together, we unpack why needing help doesn’t mean you’re failing, it just means you’re human.
In this episode, we share:
Why modern motherhood can feel so isolating
How God often works through other mothers to meet our deepest needs
Three simple, practical ways to find support when you feel lonely in your mothering
Tangible ideas for building connection through small, sacred acts
We’ll also invite you into reflection with thoughtful discussion questions and end with a gentle call to action, one small step you can take this week toward connection.
Because you don’t need to do everything.You don’t need to do it perfectly.And you were never meant to do it alone.
It truly takes a sisterhood to raise a mother.
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Inviting God into Everyday Motherhood
Motherhood is filled with moments of beauty, weakness, noise, and quiet faithfulness and none of it is meant to be carried alone. In this episode, we reflect on the power of inviting God into the everyday rhythms of motherhood: the chaos, the unseen efforts, and the places where we feel inadequate or overwhelmed.
We talk honestly about what it looks like to bring our whole selves, including our doubts, our fatigue, and our hope before a loving Heavenly Father who has given us this divine calling. As we turn to Him for daily strength, wisdom, and peace, we begin to see how He meets us right where we are and walks with us through it all.
This episode is an invitation to pause, breathe, and remember that God is present in every ordinary moment of your motherhood.
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Ether 12:27
Isaiah 49:15-16
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Motherhood can feel repetitive, unseen, and exhausting. However, it is never insignificant. In this opening episode, we begin with a truth that anchors everything we believe: motherhood is sacred.
Not just a role.Not just a season.But a divine calling—even in the monotony, even in the sacrifice, even on the days you feel like you’re barely holding it together.
In this episode, we explore how God sees mothers, why your daily work matters more than you realize, and how reframing your identity can bring peace and purpose back into your days. Through personal stories and timeless truths, we invite you to see yourself as as your Father in Heaven does: worthy, chosen, and doing holy work.
If you’ve ever wondered whether what you’re doing really matters, then this episode is for you.
 
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"When Queens Ride By" PDF
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Jeffrey R. Holland, “Behold Thy Mother,” October 2015 General Conference
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